Yesterday my best friend came over to watch the UFC fight at our house. My husband decided to smoke wings for dinner, so we were all sitting in our backyard, eating and watching tv. My friend and my husband bought a bottle of whiskey earlier and were drinking mixed drinks, but I was too tired and hungover from going out the previous day, so I wasn’t drinking with them. So here where this whole mess starts. They decide to make a bet on who is going to win the final fight, my husband proposes that the loser has to take a shot of whiskey and jump in the pool naked. One of the bets was that if they both lose (I am not sure how) then they would both jump in the pool naked. I asked why does it have to be naked, but he ignored that question. This whole conversation happened an hour before the last fight. Shortly after that conversation I fell asleep and woke up around 1 am because I heard the sound of splashing water. I opened my eyes and saw that my husband and my best friend are both skinny dipping in our pool. I got up and told him that it’s late and I want to go to sleep and he should come with me, but he said he is not ready to go to sleep and wants to continue drinking and swimming in the pool. My bf was asking me to join even though she clearly knows that I am exhausted and I don’t want to drink. I declined the invitation and went back into the house and laid on the sofa because I didn’t know what else to do. I was feeling very uncomfortable but didn’t want to make a big deal out of it and I was just hoping my husband will come back home and go to sleep with me, but that didn’t happen. They proceeded to get wasted and swim naked till 3:30 am when I saw him to come to make another round of drinks for them and this is where I lost it. I started yelling at him, saying that it’s super fucked up that he thinks he can hangout all night butt naked in a pool with my bf and get extremely wasted while his wife is sleeping by herself upstairs. I told him that I don’t hangout with any of his friends naked in the pool and would never do anything like that. After that I went to our bedroom and slammed my door. Shirley after my bf knocks on my door and asks what happened and if we can talk. I told her that it’s inappropriate for them to hangout naked in the pool by themselves. This is when she said “ well but what about those times when we skinny dipped all together? How is this any different?!”

this is when I have to mention that we did skinny dipped a few times together, once with a big group of people at my husbands birthday and one time when we were on shrooms. This was a decision we made all together and everyone was on board.

This time I did not give my consent nor did any one ask me if that was ok, they just both decided that since we’ve done this before then there shouldn’t be any issues with that. So I told her I didn’t consent to them doing it without me and that if she doesn’t understand why this is wrong then I can’t help her. She called me a hypocrite and left the room. I thought that my husband will come to bed after this fight, but instead he proceeded to hangout with my bf and I found them sleeping on the same couch (opposite sides)and under the same blanket at 6:30 am when I got up to get water. I don’t know what time she left the house and I have no desire to talk to my husband.

I just wanna know if I am overreacting?

Disappointing as in failed to live up to expectations.

We tried bamboo and somehow failed. We’ll see if we can dry out the boards and replace as needed.

Glass bowl broke in the soup as we were filling it to eat from.

I (30F) recently found out that my boyfriend (32M) secretly sold several pieces of jewelry I inherited from my deceased relatives to pay for a surprise vacation. I only discovered this when I noticed unexplained bank withdrawals and traced them back to the sale of my jewelry.

When I confronted him, he admitted he sold the jewelry to fund the vacation, saying he didn’t realize how much it meant to me. He claimed he thought I’d appreciate the trip more than the jewelry.

I was devastated and felt completely betrayed. I told him he had to move out because I can’t stay with someone who would disrespect my personal belongings and trust like that. He’s now furious, accusing me of being ungrateful and focusing on the wrong thing.

(Update) I filed a report to the police. A detective called me and said he has a history of bank and mortgage fraud. This is completely shocking to me as he appeared as normal as can be. I’m still in contact with him trying to find the places he sold my jewelry, but he refuses to answer me and tells me to let it blow over and to relax.